How to manage the Christmas holidays during divorce
Video: How do you manage the Christmas holidays during divorce?
By: Steven Benmor, B.Sc., LL.B., Family Lawyer
Jurisdiction: Ontario (Canada)
First of all be practical. The reality of is whether you’re the parent with the kids living with you or you’re the parent who the kids are not living with, recognize that it’s all about the kids. The Holidays are all about the kids and you want to make the Holiday Season a very happy and relazed time. Even when families are together, often times going to family functions, parties and so forth, can be very stressful. It only becomes more stressful when a family is apart because of divorce and the children are pulled in two directions and don’t know what to do because they want to appease both parents. The good news is that the Holiday is more than just one day. It goes on for at least a week, sometimes two weeks. And no child ever complains by having two different Christmas celebrations … (click here for more)
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